New York City Tour

August 5, 2022 – August 18, 2022 @ All Day – I will be in New York City available for coaching and sexological bodywork work services. I will also be available for public speaking opportunities and guest appearances for podcasts and events. Book a session with me here. All other inquiries can be sent via email.

Atlanta Tour

September 7, 2022 – September 12, 2022 @ All Day – I’ll be in Atlanta volunteering at this years Sex Down South conference. Come out, get down and meet some of the best sex educators and experts in the country. I will be accepting bookings for coaching and bodywork sessions. I will also be available for public speaking opportunities and guest appearances for podcasts and events. […]

DOPE ROPE Pop Up ATL with Xir Oya

September 23, 2023 @ 12:00 pm – 4:00 pm –

Dope Rope Pop-Up is swinging back to you!

This time with special guest the Darling herself, @nicole_nawaz!!!

GET YOUR TICKET HERE

Nicole Nawaz also known as Darling Nicky is a pro-black adult film creator with a niche for intimacy. She now works as a sex educator, intimacy cordinator, sexological bodyworker and psychedelic informed integration coach. She is trained to support individuals, couples and groups in self- & spiritual development, sexual embodiment, sex education, womb healing and trauma release.Together, we will explore the why’s and how’s of intimacy and connection using rope as the conduit.

Xir Oya and Mount Saint Oya will be available to teach and exchange knowledge and skillset as it pertains to the art of rope bondage!

Xir Oya is an artisan of somatic complexity, a Dominant with a fine kink palette, aesthetic, and a dense skillset built meticulously over the span of four years with both self-discipline and legacy wisdom from mentors and Dom/mes across the spectrum of experience. They consider themselves a tactician and ultimately a healer through psycho-sensual linguistics, somatic manipulation and energetic acuity. Xir Oya is a millennial leather classicist, kink prodigy and the Head-of-Household for the Tribe of Mount Saint Oya. Xir Oya is also the current Mr. Maryland Leather 2020-2022, and was born and raised in Baltimore, MD. They are acknowledged as a Mxter (Master) in the Leather Community. They have taught at numerous conference and occasions and looks forward to any time they can share what they’ve learned through their experiences.

Together, we will explore the why’s and how’s of intimacy and connection using rope as the conduit.

With your attendance you will have access to:

*In-depth Discussion of Scene Theory*

-Solidify a base rope skillset

-Explore Erotic Fun

-Establish proper safety considerations.

-Role and Awareness Considerations

*Skill Expansion Practice*

-Floor Rope (One Rope Samba)

-If proficient, Suspension workshopping

-Continued Education for Returning Guests

Hands-On 1-on-1 guidance from Xir Oya

All Skill Levels Welcome

QTBIPOC Nuanced and Elevated Instruction

BRING YOUR OWN ROPE! BRINGING YOUR OWN PARTNER PREFERED!

This is an Adult (21+) BIPOC exclusive event. 420 Friendly.

Venue address will be communicated the day before the event.

Tulum, Mexico

October 12, 2023 – October 17, 2023 @ All Day – Let’s dance under the Mexican sun and drink margaritas under the moonlight. Enjoy this immersive week full of Eros, sensation and intimacy as you spend your time with me exploring the magic of the Mayans and the energy they have left for us to revel in. Book a Discovery Call today to discuss packages and […]

Reclaiming Black Sex: a BlkTouch Event & Erotic Showcase

November 3, 2023 – November 4, 2023 @ All Day –

Reclaiming Black Sex. Indulge in an extraordinary experience at the highly anticipated Erotic Art Show, hosted at an amazing venue in the heart of Atlanta. Prepare to immerse yourself in a world where art, sensuality and creativity intertwine, all at a price cheaper than a night out in Atlanta. Get your tickets here.